
Woman in self defense mode, with the correct way of making a fist (thumbs are under the knuckles, not above them.) Photo by Family Home Security.
When people think of self defense, visions of flying crouching tigers and hidden dragons, dancing from bamboo stem to bamboo stem, wielding deadly weapons to whoosh enemies out of existence, often comes to mind. However, self defense encompasses many aspects, not just in the physicality a la Karate Kid, or what’s mirrored in movies.
As a woman who has learned Filipino Weapon Fighting, mainly to combat street harassment in New York City, I have learned that being able to defend oneself comes in many forms: physical, verbal, mental, and spiritual. It takes time to master many forms, techniques, and mindsets that alter your perceptions of a potential attack.
Physically, I learned that the female advantage, even in fighting men who may be bigger or stronger, is our quickness and speed. Oh, and knowing those target points (some of them include nose, eyes, chin, neck, ribs.)

Don't allow yourself to be silenced. Verbal self defense is especially important for women. Photo by Goshin Karate and Judo Academy, Scottsdale, AZ.
I have taught basic self defense workshops. And one thing I notice is how the female participants don’t always realize they have the option to verbally defend themselves. But, once I teach them to yell “No!” from deep in their gut, instead of their throat, it’s like they’ve all found a new toy they want to play with! For women, learning to stand up verbally for ourselves is a key tool, since we have often been raised not to do so.
On a mental level, it is important to understand where your strengths and weaknesses lie. Then, to refine your strengths, and improve on the weaknesses. And, as a woman, it is particularly important to get over the image of a knife heading towards you from above. To condition yourself to act fast, instead of freezing instantly, which is what I first did when I practiced this in class. How interesting that women are most afraid of the knife, yet it is often the weapon we are best at (vs. other types.)

The balisong, my initially most feared, but, now, most favorite, weapon. Photo by Fox Quality Knives.
Spiritually, it is necessary to build up your reserves, to discipline the mind, since lots of times, we are our own worst enemy. It is a constant work in progress. But, over the years, martial artists have realized that “building Qi”, or building up the energetic life force within oneself, is tantamount to success as a warrior. Some forms that build Qi include Tai Qi and Qi Gong. Meditation is another component to silencing the monkey mind we all have, that part of our mind that swings from one topic to the next, creating unrest and confusion. It is meditation that brings clarity, and seats ourselves into a more present lifestyle.
And, yet, another, and equally important, form of building Qi and maintaining the body is acupuncture. Acupuncture has been used for at least 2,000 years by those who trained themselves in the arts, to build their Qi, boost their immunity in harsh environmental and physical conditions, maintain their health in order to be at top shape at all times, and even to heal martial arts related injuries (there are many soaks, rubs, liniments, patches, poultices, and such, that have been created just for that.) Tui Na is healing modality that includes Chinese Medical Massage, which is a tool acupuncturists use to help break up stasis, and encourage blood flow to the injured area. Back in the day, and in some select settings, still, acupuncturists even do bone setting, for when it’s been way active in the dojo!

Ancient Chinese Warrior Yue Fei (1103 - 1142 A.D.) I'm sure he ate his Wheaties and got acupuncture treatments regularly. Photo by Kaleidoscope Culture-China.
So, as you see, acupuncture is much more than a hip luxury to be experienced in a spa-like setting. It is part of the greater, vital whole in keeping oneself on top of their game, to keep qi at an optimum level, and a form of self defense.
Really great Post Margarita! Going to post a link to it on my blog if that’s ok. I think my patients would really benefit.
Hi Kim!
Thanks for enjoying my post, and please feel free to share it on your blog! The picture of your clinic looks so inviting, and your picture of Miss Pig put a smile on my face. I hope all is well in Portland.
Margarita
Margarita,
Thanks for the comment on the clinic! I do love it. Miss Pig even comes in to help treat occasionally.
In health,
Kim